"Suffering is part of life, but it's also the key to success." - Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
Society often equates happiness with the absence of suffering. But, the truth is, enduring suffering for a purposeful goal leads to lasting happiness and success. This realization is not only profound but also incredibly useful.
When guiding young minds, we often advise them to pursue careers or lives based on their passions. However, the deciding factor in their success and happiness isn't their love for the job, but their ability to endure its most challenging aspects.
Instead of asking if you enjoy math when considering a career as an actuary, ask yourself if you're willing to study for an hour or more a day for years. Instead of wondering if you want to manage money, consider if you're comfortable cold calling family, friends, and strangers to ask for money.
In essence, when evaluating a career path, focus on the hardest part and ensure you're prepared to face the suffering. This is the secret to lasting success and happiness.
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